Hiya Cowgirl,
I have to lose 75kg to 80kg - so I know how you feel. There are plenty of "big losers" on LBT - both people who have already lost their weight, and those who are working on it. Check out the BMI over 50 thread in the support section, and the before and after picture thread.
I am not banded yet - scheduled for 5th October. It's a big decision - very confronting. I am taking this step so that I can get control of my health before I end up with obestiy related diseases / co-morbidities.
What won me (and my family) over to lapbanding were the following:
- it has more favourable long term health outcomes (vitamins, diet etc) compared to other weight loss surgeries
- it has a lower rate of complication compared to other weight loss surgeries
- it's reversable
- it's successful
- it's affordable - the band, fills & follow ups are all covered by Medicare & private health insurance, or fully covered if a public patient
- the government thinks it's a good idea - it was recently announced that they will increase funding for lapbanding, as for every $1 they spend on this procedure, they save $70 in diabetes treatments alone (not to mention savings on other obesity related diseases)
- the fantastic support and experience of those who have have gone before - hang out at places like this and you'll see what I mean. Most doctors / surgery centres have their own support groups as well. Mine group run at the hospital with the support of the psychologist, nurse and surgical staff.
All the best - we're here to help. There are a few other Queenslanders around LBT.
Good luck,
Anna.