Horse Heads in the bed

wavydaby · 05-25-2006, 09:16 PM

Ok, Im having panic attacks... It all started last week.
Hubby went out of town to Orlando for the microsoft conference.
No biggie.
Ok, I am ashamed to admit, but the house cleaning company came Monday. (it was a gift to myself for about... 5 months)

I didnt have access to hubby's paypal account and I sent an email to the house cleaning lady (independent, not a big company) telling her so.

Apparently, she never go the email. When I got home last Thursday, there was a NOTE ON MY PILLOW asking where her $ money was.

So I call her and told her that was unprofessional and freaked me out that she just came in and left a note on my pillow. I said you could have called or left the note on the door.
She got snippy and I got snippy back and cancled with her right then.
The only way she had access was via the garage door opener key pad.
I have disabled it.
It totally freaked me out. I had "boundry" issues with someone coming in to clean the house to begin with and she did that.
Would you have done that too?
My panic attack stems from the re-occuring nightmare that people break- in to the house.
I still wiggin' out over this.

On a side note.. I never had panic attacks until I took Welbutrin 2 yrs ago to try to help with weight loss.
What do ya'll think?

LindaV · 05-25-2006, 09:33 PM

I agree, that's a little weird leaving the note on your pillow!

I wouldn't worry too much though. You cancelled the service and changed your code. Cleaning people aren't known for going postal.

the best me · 05-25-2006, 10:57 PM

OMGosh, she came into your house, unannounced, unexpected, NOT on a cleaning day, and left a NOTE ON YOUR PILLOW?!!!!!! That gives ME the creeps! Super unprofessional, boundary-crossing there. Nope. NOT okay. A phone call would have been sufficient. I'm glad you cancelled. Make sure she gets her dough, that would be the only thing keeping her coming around. I'd be mad, but not panicked. Don't keep wiggin'. You are safe as long as you don't think she's wacko over not getting her money on time. It will be alright, wavy! You did the right thing.

Dragonwillow · 05-26-2006, 06:27 AM

Wow Jill, I think you did the right thing canceling her services too. I haven't gotten panic attacks in years, and I'm guessing mine were mild then from some of the stories I've heard.

You will be alright, change the security code and go on. Have you heard of anyone else having been on wellbutrin having similiar side effects? It would be worth looking into...and checking to see if it something that can be treated. Not sure how much I would do before surgery though....I was always afraid of rocking the boat...lol and having another delay. But you cleared Pshcy...lol.