Thanks Patty and Elaine for replying to my post.:)
Patty, I have heard of ToF but am not familar with the details. If you have questions and need support for your son, this is the place you might want to go:
www.valvereplacement.com. There is lots and lots of info and great people on the forum. I've met numerous of them at the yearly reunions since 2000, including the person that started the web site. His name is Hank Eyring. He lives in Mesa, AZ.
Elaine, I am trying to avoid having to go to Phoenix and if I go ahead with this surgery I would prefer staying in Tucson. I hate to be driving up there all the time for all the after care. It is a 2 1/2 hr. drive for me.
My name is Christina. I am 5'4" tall and weigh 203 lbs. :help: :help: My BMI is 34.3. I just recently allowed the nurse at the doctors office to weigh me again when I was there to see him for another problem. Before that I refused to go on the scale and avoided it like the plague. I had not weighed myself in several years. I knew I was up there but didn't know exactly how much. I was hoping it wasn't over 200.:cry :cry :embarassed: :embarassed: When I was doing cardiac rehab in the fall of 2000 I was 192 so I gained 11 pounds in 6/12 years.:omg:
I am in the very beginning of even thinking about WLS. I am so tired of thinking about weight 24/7, not being happy with myself, afraid to eat, clothes that don't fit right and WLS seems the only way and would be nice not to have to worry about weight anymore.
I did have the courage this time to speak with my doctor about WLS and he is not against it. He said that it was not impossible but that I would be considered a "high risk" patient in regards to the Coumadin I take for my artificial heart valve. He would rather see me try get the weight off myself and buckle down on the suggested food plan and excercising every day. The suggested food and exercise plan he gave me is not unreasonable but will it work for me?
I have not spoken to my cardiologist about WLS yet. I just saw him in Feburary and won't see him again until next year unless there is a problem before that time. I can always call for another appointment and speak with him about WLS.
My DH of almost 30 years is very afraid for me getting this surgery because I am a fast metabolizer of Coumadin and I need 20-26mg+ per day to stay stable with my INR. My heart surgery in 8/2000 had to be redone within 11 days for that reason because the doctors had no idea that I was a fast metabolizer. They treated me like everyone else. Onze size fits all. (long story) I threw a clot and thanks to God it settled underneath the new mechanical valve and didn't move. Nevertheless, the surgery had to be redone. DH is afraid someone is going to mess me up and that I will throw a clot again, or worse have a stroke. I will have to go off Coumadin for this surgery and they need to bridge me with another drug like Heparin or Lovenox. They cannot leave me unprotected.
I got a referral to see a Lap Band surgeon/specialist here in town yesterday but still have to take the time to call and make an appointment.
I haven't called right away because I am a bit apprehensive myself as well and am thinking is it worth the risk? Am I just choosing the easy way out?
How did everyone else feel before their surgery and how did you all proceed?
Ooh, and will the body eventually reject the band? I was in Phoenix at a WLS (GB) seminar last year with a friend and that is what her surgeon told the audience that evening. His opinion is that the lap band will eventually be rejected by the body (about 10-15 years) and the surgery will need to be redone.
Hugs,
AZdutchgirl