need to remember me

asmith508 · 06-30-2008, 11:15 PM

Well, I am a 27 year old mother of two. Today is my birthday. And my wish is to have bariatric surgery this year. I was always very small until I had my children and became ill. I went from 112 lbs at twenty weeks pregnant to 230 lbs after I had my daughter. I am only four foot ten inches, so the weight is over double my Healthy weight. my weight has induced fertility problems, numbness in my hands and legs, insulin resistance, sleep apnea, and very poor self esteem with depression. I am hoping that I can find the information I need to make an informed decision about my surgery and build a support group tht I read was nessassary. Two months ago, I saw a picture of myself on myspace with my two best friends. I didn't recognise myself. I have went from this cute little blonde to something I couldn't recognise. I need to find me again under all this fat. My husband is scared something will go wrong, but it can't be as bad as what is wrong now. Can it?

drlukemayes · 07-01-2008, 12:14 AM

hang in there. all i can tell you is that if i had it to do over again i would do it in a heartbeat. I you have any questions call my patient surgical cordinator, she is the one who scheduled my surgery and she will be able to help your husband put his mind at ease. Her name is Jessica you can reach her at 503-539-3023.

suzyt · 07-01-2008, 07:57 AM

Happy Birthday!!

You have landed in the right place -- there is plenty of information here -- enough to answer all your questions and some you haven't thought of yet.

Hang in there, it can be a bumpy ride, but take the time to decide if this is right for you. I was banded June 26th and I am recovering well and ready for the next part of the journey.

Please let us know if we can answer any questions for you!!

Brandy~ · 07-01-2008, 10:50 AM

Hi Asmith :) You're definetly in the right place. You're 100% right that what you're experiencing now is far worse than the band. With the band as a tool you can regain your life and confidence :)

Just poke around on here and read all that you can. There is a Plethora of knowledge on here for you to absorb. I would start with going to a seminar usually with your local bariatric surgeon to get a hands on feel for how it all works :)

I am sorry but isn't that just an advertisement for your establishment Dr?

lotzasunshine · 07-01-2008, 10:56 AM

I'm glad you've come here for support!! This is a great place to talk about fears, doubts, goals and success!!! I know what you are going through with your Hubby. Mine is also very worried about the surgery, but he said he is more worried about how my life will be with all the extra weight. I haven't been able to get pregnant yet, so I do see this as a type of fertility treatment. I hope you find the answers you are looking for!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!