Hi, I have been reading these threads now for several months and posted a few times. Thought now that things are starting to roll, I would introduce myself. I have been fighting weight problems since my youngest was born...and now she's 20! So I can't write it off as baby fat anymore

I am 5'3" and BMI was 37.1 at my last visit to the Dr. I am being banded (hopefully, will know for sure on May 20) the first week in June. I have had my psych eval, orientation, initial surgeon's visit, seen dietician and physical therapy. Today I got bloodwork done and see the surgeon and do hospital preadmission next tuesday. Its coming at me like a freight train!
My insurance, or rather my employer will not approve the insurance, so I tried the VA option, as I am a veteran. No go there either unless I was willing to gain up to a BMI of 50. Now how smart was that advice! So I have gathered all my pennies together, said forget it to ever retiring and got enough together for self pay.
I will be getting the Realize Band at Columbia Bariatric Services at Boone County Hospital in Columbia MO. My doc is Dr Pitt, who has had Lap Band surgery himself. I would like to find others who have gone to this hospital or live nearby. I livd 2 1/2 hours from Columbia so I would not get to go there often for their support meetings unless I schedule a fill on a day that it meets. It would be nice to talk to people in the same area so we can compare notes.