Hello! I'm also new to this WLS world and I live on Oahu (Kapolei to be exact).
Who is your doctor? I'm looking at Dr. Cirangle (but he only operates in San Fran) and I just started looking around to see who is good here on island. My husband is concerned (as am I) with Dr. C. being so far away if I needed him. I know there are a lot of people who have done it (I met a few in a support group meeting last week) -but there is still a lot of stress surrounding the decision.
As for bypass vs. banding - I think that is a lot about how YOU feel about both procedures. There is good and bad for each. My advice (for what it's worth) - research, research, research! Don't let anyone talk you into doing anything you are not comfortable with.
Good luck! Keep us posted!