Another April 21st person here. In NJ, though. I've got the passing fear of something happening. But ya know, something could happen
any day of our lives. When it's time, it's time, kwim? The way I look at it is, we're taking this step to make sure that we're going to be around FOR our kids. So, by the grace of God or Buddha or whatever Deity you subscribe to (or not) ;), we'll make it through.
And then there will be the Bandster Hell on the other side and the *real* fun begins.
Hey - at least you'll be in Mexico!
hugs
-m