What benefits have you experieince since being Banded?

jlg · 08-02-2008, 05:56 PM

I've only been banded since Jun 13, 2008 and I'm down 22lbs. I know that it doesnt' sound like a lot, but I have noticed a difference in my clothes and how they fit as well as how I feel. My husband was banded on June 6, 2008 and he's down almost 40lbs. He's not even working out, just going to work. I've noticed that when I hug him, we are so much closer together and his head has gotten smaller

! Seriously, he used to have a big head! I feel happier, maybe it's because the sex seems soo much better (I know TMI

! I have so much more energy while I am at work, and when I'm at home playing with the kids. I want to play with them, not just send them to the game room to watch tv. Realizing that I will one day be soon will be one of those skinny bitches that I wanted to hit in the head with a baked potato (extra sour cream, bacon bits and cheese please

)

ROFLMAO!!!! But seriously, who would have ever thought that I would hear the words come out of my mouth that I wasn't hungry, or better yet that I forgot to eat because I wasn't hungry :confused2:. Now that is some crazy shit!

Just typing this, I feel like I am about to cry, because I am realizing that I took the first step in getting my life back. I used to hate getting up early in the morning, but I find myself getting up at 5am to make sure that I get my exercise in before I get the kids up and go to work

. I find myself buying clothes sizes smaller now, knowing that I will eventually get into them. Not much smaller, but a size 16 to 14 vs. the 22 that I was wearing (I'm a 20 now). I feel like I am back in college, because I want to go out more and have drinks or go dancing. I still can't bring myself to buy shirts without a cap sleeve because I hate my arms, but I know that I will evenutally get there.

My initial goal was to go back to my college Homecoming which is the week of my birthday in October, but then I figured that I was doing it for a group of people that I haven't seen in over 10 years (am I giving away my age now

). I'm just realizing that I love me so much more, not because I had the surgery, but because I am realizing that this is the person that I should be. Someone who values herself and no longer hides when someone wants to take a picture. I see myself in a different light now.

So ok, here it is...................

Better sex

Cuter and smaller clothes

Closer hugs

Going out more and having fun

Being a skinny bitch

Just loving me more

P.S. A shout to all of the ladies who are feeling me right now, because I know this is hard, but it will definitely be worth it (correction, we're worth it).

Chris61 · 08-02-2008, 07:13 PM

Congradulations to you and your hubby on being banded together and doing well so far. My wife and I were banded almost 11 months and we are doing great. Iam down from my high of 250 a year ago. My BP is in check. I do not seem to use the CPAP as much and the pressure levels are way down. I go for a study in Sept. Which will be a year since being banded. We are both able to do so much more on a daily basis. The wife is getting off her meds slowly. Keep up the good work. The weight will come off just fine.

Chris

MyMeshelle · 08-02-2008, 07:28 PM

Congrats!! You made me cry!! Good luck on your new life!! XOOXOX

Janice818 · 08-02-2008, 07:50 PM

I had my consultation last week with Dr. Paya in Glendale, CA. I got the financing in order I just now have to schedule my appointment. Before I shell out $16,000 I was hoping some of you could share your experience and maybe answer some questions.

1. I am not going to tell anyone that I work with and limit who I tell outside of the workplace. Is this possible? How much can you actually eat if you are out to lunch or at a dinner event? Can I drink a glass of wine?

2. Has anyone had this procedure done with a low BMI? If so, what is the typical weekly weight loss?

3. Has anyone used Dr. Paya? If so, how has your experience been?

THANKS!!

annabella · 08-02-2008, 08:24 PM

Iam feeling you jlg! I just took my one month pics today and cried at the side by sides. I was banded July 2nd and the difference in how I look made me cry. I lost 16 lbs and wow what a difference. My husband and I just starred at the pics in amazement in just ONE month. I can't wait till next month!! I have 5.5 cc's in a 10 cc band.

Janice, my BMI was 34? Not sure if that's how low you were thinking? Iam averaging 4lbs a wk. Iam exactly one month out and have lost 16 lbs. LOVING IT. Best decision I've made in a long time. Iam in MI so can't say that I know Dr. Paya. My goal is to lose 85 lbs total, that will put me at 135 lbs.

You can drink a glass of wine, just remember its empty calories but if that's your splurge here and there go for it.

We go out to eat every friday with friends to a local Coney Island. Yesterday I ordered grilled fish with tartar sauce and rice. I got 3 pieces of grilled fish (no breading) and ate 2 pieces of fish (approx 3-4 oz) and a quarter of the rice. I eat and chew chew chew so much that I do find I get done about the same time as everyone else. I also take a bite and put my fork down. No one else does that so that takes up time too.

I did tell some people but my family has NO idea about the surgery. When I say "my family" I mean my mom, sisters etc... My husband and kids know of course. I simply chose not to tell those I KNEW would be negative. Hope this helps.

Annabella

Yvonne72 · 08-02-2008, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Janice818

I had my consultation last week with Dr. Paya in Glendale, CA. I got the financing in order I just now have to schedule my appointment. Before I shell out $16,000 I was hoping some of you could share your experience and maybe answer some questions.

I would have to say you posted this in the wrong place... try again!!!

Yvonne72 · 08-02-2008, 09:37 PM

My belly doesn't touch the steering wheel...

I have a lap for my kids to sit on...

Better Sex? You better believe it!!!

Double takes from people who haven't seen me since surgery!

I can see my smile coming through my chubby cheeks!

I actually enjoy working out!

I can swim again!

My bathing suit is loose!

I am gaining control of my body and my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!