lol.. I made my husband wait a week. Like with all the gas me in the mood ha! lol But after a week we did, and as long as he didnt lean on the port I was fine. I am 3 weeks out and I do notice a lil tinge of pain, not to much. But i get the same thing if i sit too long. I wouldnt worry, maybe different positions, with out me getting graphic lol.. use your imagination