Thanks disneyfreak!
I called him on it & his response has been "this is happening to both of us not just you & I needed to talk it through with people". He's been pretty pissed off at me for thinking about having the surgery... voluntarily going under antistisia (I'm so lost w/out spell check), no longer being able to eat, eat, eat (which is why I have to have the surgery) with him. He's a closet chef and foody. As soon as the surgery was over he said he became totally relaxed & wasn't stressing anymore.
He also told me he is proud of what I have accomplished & I should be proud to "why keep it a secret, you are being proactive about your health". I'm still pissed I just have nowhere to go with it!
Jazzy Junes! 
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