A thread for Single Bandsters

Sugar1 · 12-19-2007, 10:05 AM

Thanks Di... yes, I did speak with my lawyer. We actually have a 4-way meeting tomorrow to hash things out (should be fun) and we will advise my future ex and his lawyer that I will be moving out with the children on February 1st... By then we will have a separation agreement signed (I hope!!!)... I work for lawyers so I have an idea of what kind of things can happen, but I didn't think he would be so low as to tell me I have to take the kids and leave the house that they have been living in for 13 years of their lives... but that's okay, I hope he and his father rot in hell!!!

Yvonne

Dibaby · 12-19-2007, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Sugar1

Thanks Di... yes, I did speak with my lawyer. We actually have a 4-way meeting tomorrow to hash things out (should be fun) and we will advise my future ex and his lawyer that I will be moving out with the children on February 1st... By then we will have a separation agreement signed (I hope!!!)... I work for lawyers so I have an idea of what kind of things can happen, but I didn't think he would be so low as to tell me I have to take the kids and leave the house that they have been living in for 13 years of their lives... but that's okay, I hope he and his father rot in hell!!!

Yvonne

Ohhh good to hear that your all covered. There are alot of nieve women so I just wanted to make sure. Sorry that life isn't so great for you right now but 2008 is gonna be fabulous :) Ohhh and don't worry about your ex..what comes around goes around for sure

Di

AthinnerDenise · 12-20-2007, 12:39 AM

Stress can definitely cause the band to be tighter. If you're throwing up a lot, you should have a little taken out.

PigsRFlying · 12-20-2007, 10:57 AM

I have decided at the weight of 165 to start dating. I don't know how I can wait that long but at least some self esteem will be back then!

AthinnerDenise · 12-21-2007, 01:36 PM

I am at 158 this morning. I am going to meet someone I have been talking to from one of the dating sites this weekend.

I hope it goes well. It ought to be interesting. He is very short and barely as tall as me. 5'2" . I think that's going to be weird, but not fair to write him off for that reason. I hate it when guys are so weight conscience so I don't think I should let height be an issue.

I will let everyone know how it goes..

PigsRFlying · 12-22-2007, 11:53 AM

Hope it goes well!

missy0224 · 12-23-2007, 02:20 PM

I wanted to post something about John (Neveragain). His mom called me and told me that he had gotten in a bad motorcycle accident. If you would all keep him and his family in your prayers. Last I heard he was in Intensive care. But he'll pull through. Thank you for your prayers and thoughts.

AthinnerDenise · 12-23-2007, 09:10 PM

Oh that is horrible news! I will definitely keep him in my prayers.

I wonder if WasAbubblebutt knows. She is a friend of his.

AthinnerDenise · 12-23-2007, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by PigsRFlying

Hope it goes well!

It was a bust. I was not the least bit attracted to him. bummer.

The ones I am attracted to are not attracted to me, and the ones that are attracted to me, I am not attracted to. I can keep hoping though.

chrispygal · 12-24-2007, 09:34 AM

Hey everyone! I am not lost for good - just been really busy and not close to a computer much. Things are going great with the guy and I have no complaints other than having no free time. lol. But I feel so lucky to have met such a nice and wonderful person. We all deserve that, and I hope 2008 brings everyone such a great person!

Missy - thanks for posting about John. Keep us updated.

JC - have fun on your vacation!

Denise - I'm happy that you keep getting out there! That's all you can do is keep trying.

Pigs - No need to wait on dating - I bet you look great! Just go out and have some fun!

Well off to finish cooking for tonight and tomorrow. I just wanted to stop by and say hi, and wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.

AthinnerDenise · 12-25-2007, 01:53 AM

Chrispy, I am so glad you checked in. I figured your new relationship was keeping you busy. I hope you have found someone who is going to be THE ONE!

Merry Christmas everyone! I hope all of us lose all the lbs we want in 2008!

greyhounder · 12-25-2007, 11:40 PM

I'm single! And not loving it!! I'm 38, live in a small town in Wisconsin and just can't find Mr. Right! I've dated, but never have been in a serious relationship. Most men think I am the coolest girl, and I remind them so much of their sister/cousin/etc. I just don't feel date-able. I don't know if/when I reach my goal weight if I will feel date-able then either.

Nice to know there are others out there. I always suspected that I wasn't alone!

Bec

Infaith · 12-27-2007, 12:05 AM

Greyhounder-you ARE date-able at any weight. It's all a matter of confidence. I'm still over 200 pounds, but am pleased to announce I get quite a few approving looks from guys and loving every minute of it. Just dress to show off your curves girl, hold your head up high and go for it!

ccw · 12-27-2007, 12:54 AM

am sooooooooooooo ready to being dating and it just isnt happening!!!! i am so proud and confident within myself but mr right is NOWHERE to be found :(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Dibaby · 12-27-2007, 10:16 AM

I might have a lunch date today..we'll see. I know I said I was waiting till the new year..but this sort of happen unexpected. Anyways..lol..we'll see. I've already told him about my band. I really have come to the conclusion that telling this early on is wayyy better. I rather not have him waste my time if its a big deal for him.

Why is it the cuter the guys get the more suspect I get of them being players? I dunno if its just the attitude or what..but I'm on high alert with this guy..lol