It is very hurtful but I think the fact that she said something (and has continued to call you) probably indicates that she might want to try to work past it? Like she knows that in a way she's been using you but she does love you enough to want to work through that.

I may be barking up the wrong tree, its hard to tell from a post, but I'm also very forgiving (or stupid?) and would want to try to continue the friendship. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt but I'd tell her how much she's hurt my feelings.

Your call though. Nobody would think you were strange for giving her the flick, either.

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Jacqui