For what it is worth is quite a bit thank you, I honestly appreciate anything anyone has suggested. I have looked into Crohn's and I did not have the symptoms:
Information on Crohn's Disease Symptoms, Causes, Diagnosis, and Treatment by MedicineNet.com How is Crohn's disease diagnosed?
The diagnosis of Crohn's disease is suspected in patients with fever, abdominal pain and tenderness, diarrhea with or without bleeding, and anal diseases. Laboratory blood tests may show elevated white cell counts and
sedimentation rates, both of which suggest infection or inflammation. Other blood tests may show low red blood cell counts (
anemia), low blood proteins, and low body minerals, reflecting loss of these elements due to chronic diarrhea.
I hope your Brother and you Father are doing okay.
Virginia