I can't do anything about your home life except you try Ann Landers thought for the day "Would I be better off with him or without him". Make your decision and get on with your life.
I don't have kids but I do know that kids have energy and they also sense when things aren't right. There are probably acting up. Can you send them to a relative for a few days to give you time to think and get better.
As for you fills, if you are shovelling things into your mouth then you don't have much restriction. How much do you have in. If you have the band almost 100% filled then you have a band that is probably leaking. If not you are better off with a loose fill. If you are eating emotionally, you would proably end up PBing frequently if you had more restriction and could cause band erosion or slippage etc.
In the meantime, go for a walk when you feel like eating. Doddie

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Dr. Yau, Toronto/Dr.Woodhead,Vancouver
Surgery Date: Feb.01/07
Fr. Midband 303/288/218.4
Fill: 5.50 ccs


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