It does suck the difference between how people deal with the invisible fat people.
Part of me wonders if it's a piece of how I carry myself, I mean I know it's the buttheads who don't see fat as equal, or see fat as less than, but there's also the "I'm in control of my universe" factor, where you can not help but notice me now. I don't think I had quite the same brilliance nearly 70 pounds ago. I know I'm more flirty and I smile much more.
I'll take some of the responsibility for fading into the background but only 20%. The other 80% belongs to people being rude. LOL | 