I probably wont tell you anything that wasnt in other threads but can really only say I can sympathise. I have th VG band also and I have had about 10 fills to get to the spot I am at now. Before reaching 7.5 mls on my 7th fill I had no restriction either and was gaining weight. The lucky thing for me was my DR told me I coul come in each fortnight to get a fill until I reached a good spot. I just want to re iterate that until 7.5mls I had no restriction so dont feel down it will happen. There has been alot of talk over here amongst Drs about the VG and the long time it is taking to reach restriction with it.
My Dr put 2.5mls in my band at the time of surgery to help that, but once my swelling went down I had no restriction.
I would explain to your Dr that you would like to reach a point where you are not puttingon weight but losing it since this was weight loss surgery. You also have to consider the fact that with a larger fill 2mls or so that could easily put you too tight and you will experience the not being able to swallow your own saliva experience. I havent had that happen yet though.
Another idea is to have him fill your band and you drink water and he removes it slowly until the water goes down fine.
Really just sit down and tell him basically what you posted in this post. Taking months and months to reach a spot where you are loing and not gaining really isnt acceptable in my opinion, but thats just me.
Good Luck and I really feel your frustration being someone who took 10.1ccs in the 10cc band to have good restriction.
Hugs

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Kel

4/4/05 NSW Australia
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10.1ml in VG 10ml Band

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