Okay, I started a new thread with the brain-banding topic. Thanks Carrie. Here's the link.
http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthrea...354#post126354
Candy, I get those same feelings, too...like this is my last chance and hurry up and lose the weight so if I erode and lose my band...I'll have "fixed myself" enough and maybe I won't gain it back. I'm in a hurry!!! And that's why. "what if I lose my band". Ouch.