Hi all,

My name is Jane and I'm in Melbourne.

After trying to lose weight for four years and tipping the scales at 121kg, I've finally decided enough is enough. Having tried every diet under the sun, I think lap banding is an option.

I have private health insurance, and have had it for three years so waiting lists aren't a problem.

I'm happy that I've made the decision. But I am SCARED. I am scared of seeing the surgeon. I am scared they will say no and I will be doomed to this life. I am scared about the actual operation.

I don't need sugarcoating, but could I get your honest opinion - is it worth it?

Thanks in advance.